Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »

What we think when mixed with strong emotional content has its own special way of coming true. One purpose of the universe is to transmute our thoughts and emotions into their physical equivalent. When we fear something, it is charged with a strong emotional content. All the fine intricacies of the universe are attempting to transmute this fear into it’s physical equivalent.

When we start to fear losing our drop dead gorgeous girlfriend, the physical equivalent isn’t far behind. Our actions and sub-communications begin to repel her on a subliminal level. Insecurities, jealousy and neediness creep into our personality. And before you know it, if your not careful…its over.

It’s the law of nature trying to reward us with the physical equivalent of what we think about most. It makes no distinction between positive or negative thoughts. It only attempts to make them come true. So how do we know if we fear losing her as a girlfriend ?

Some ‘fear of loss’ symptoms;

Attempting to control your girlfriend too much. Controlling when and where she goes out, who she sees and what she does. Remember, what you try to control,…is actually controlling you. Read the rest of this entry »