This is written for the purpose of helping you cope with the fact that you have been cheated on. . .

Trust me, nothing will cut deeper than being cheated on. It doesn’t matter how messy a relationship gets or how many other inadequacies you might have within it, nothing will come close to the pain that can be caused by being cheated on.

How do we cope. .  ?   What is the right thing to do. .  ?   Is it your own fault. .  ?   Will I ever get over it ?  Should I have seen it coming. . ?   Have I reacted the right way. . ?  Again,..how the hell do I cope. . ?

When you’ve been cheated on you find out just how much you really love someone. If you really do love someone, this is when it can get hard.

If you don’t really love her, you’ll find it easier to cope because you will have a tendency just to leave her or you’ll just attempt to even the score by doing the same back to her. No love lost really, because there was none in the first place. It’s when you really love her that your going to face the immense struggle within. Read the rest of this entry »