Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same.

For me to attempt to give you a set approach pattern is just lunacy, your not me. Your unique and so is every situation and mood you’ll be in. Set patterns create pressure, they make us measure up to set routines. When you fall short on a certain point in the routine you only punish yourself more.

You might be in a really good or average mood, so might she. The environment your in will also differ. Rules and methods can be hazardous. Try to get the hard and fast golden rules out of your head. Ther’re based around common sense and there is nothing common about approaching gorgeous women.

Truth is, there is no sure fire way. I’ve walked confidently and calmly up to womanUnderground Seduction

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I still did succeeded with her, and things turned out absolutely fine, but it took some work. The only reason it still worked was because I didn’t take the interaction and comments personally. And that my friend, is the only rule to follow.

‘Never take a comment to heart…’ This will only help you to operate in a more attractive manner. To be brutally honest, I have found the more alternate the way you approach a woman, the better. It makes it memorable and different for them. Its not boring. If your approaching gorgeous women you really need to do something a bit different.

I could run through all the set approach methods with you, but to be honest its a waste of time. If you can’t muster up something original and spontaneous to open her, well you shouldn’t even be trying to be honest. Your not ready. Your inner self is not ready.

It has little to do with what we say anyway. It has more to do with what we project. Our presence, demeanor and character. What are you going to do after you get through your perfectly rehearsed opener anyway. You’ll just end up dead in the water if you need a set opener to be able to approach a woman.

Walk over to her and just stand next to her. She might look at you strange, she might ignore you or she might freak out. All women like and react to different things. There are no guarantees. I have done this and been asked, “what the hell do you think you are doing ?” I just said, “I just feel like being next to something beautiful” She blushed and said “well OK that’s fine then, but if you are going to stand here your going to have to talk to me” To which I replied, “well OK, if I have to then”

Now I might of been slapped if I done the same thing to a different women, who’s to know. But it worked at the time. And I have a strange feeling that if I had of just approached her confidently and said ‘hi’, she might of shot me down in flames. Use your gut instincts and muster up something truly original.

Women don’t like a man who is just too good and perfectly confident. They find a slight amount of vulnerability a big turn on. Sometimes they like to watch you squirm, it’s more fun for them that way. If you just roll with it and play around with her witty little rejections that she throws at you, she’ll already be having lots of fun with you.

Occasionally I get out smarted and out witted by women. The strange thing is though, just as I’m about to give up or walk away they will often give me a genuine smile and say something like “oh c’mon, I’m only joking and having fun with you, please stay, I promise I’ll be a bit more gentle on you” (well OK then if you promise)

Be brave. . .be bold. . .and try to be original. . .And leave rehearsed openers for amateurs. Women can see through rehearsed openers because they’re not the real you. Even if you do just say ‘hi’ to her, she will feel it’s genuine and she will know your for real. Always much better than rehearsed material. . .