So you have given a girl your number and expect her to call you. That’s a mistake and its misguided optimism. You are the man right? Well from now on you are responsible. Responsible for what I hear you say.

Responsible for learning and abiding by the following principle; “I am the man. I am responsible for every single detail of every single interaction, with every single woman I meet.”

That’s the short version. Now here’s the long one. You are responsible for initiating eye contact. You’re responsible for approaching the woman and initiating conversation and keeping the conversation alive.

You’re responsible for directing the conversation in the right direction. And you’re totally responsible for the seduction, and asking for her phone number.

You’re responsible for calling her and asking her on a date and then calling her back again when she doesn’t show up. You’re responsible for choosing where to take her and it’s up to you to initiate the first kiss too.  You’re responsible for initiating sex and creating the correct mood. And you’re also responsible for maintaining her interests in you….and for chasing her.

You’re also responsible for educating yourself with regards to the correct seduction methods and dating etiquette that women will respond to. Just like you are doing now…

Hopefully by now you get the picture. You are the man and you must begin to start acting like one. From now on you do not expect the woman to do anything with regards to making life easier for you.

If something is not working during the seduction period, it is your fault. You must take the initiative and responsibility for absolutely everything.

This is one way in which you will become an expert with women. In no way will you hold resentment towards women for this fact. If you do, you are behaving like something other than a man.

The cold hard fact is that it is your fault if something is not going right during the seduction period. It is your responsibility to correct this. It is your fault that you do not have the sex life or relationships you desire….no one else’s fault.

Do not blame anyone else for this and do not leave this responsibility up to women. Surely you want control and power over this part of your life. It would do you good to realize that everything in your life that is going wrong is actually your fault.

If you do not accept this fact then you are choosing to be a victim in your life. You will transfer blame and make excuses and find reasons for why you do not have the kind life you want to have.  Do you think successful people think like this or do you think they take control and responsibility for everything in their lives?

What about equal rights for women movement? What about women being fair and doing their share of chasing the man they want? What about women initiating things sometimes and giving men a break?

They all sound like legitimate questions but women are simply not wired like that. If you are thinking these things then you are retarding your progress on your way to becoming a ‘Master Seductor’.

If a woman does some of these things, well consider yourself very lucky, but do not get use to them or start to expect them. To do so is damaging to your character and progress, and you are not really thinking or acting like a man.

Because you are responsible for every single detail, you also now have control over every single stage of the seduction. You now control when you talk to women, when you call her, when you ask her out and how you treat her. This is the good side of the coin as you now have all the options and choices.

Do not give out your number to women anymore in an attempt to pick up women. You may give out your number to twenty women but I seriously doubt that a single one will call.

Women do not initiate. So do not expect this. And then you will not hold any resentment towards women. It’s simply not the way they are wired.

If you are not making women the center piece of your life then this shouldn’t be a problem for you. A friend of mine recently told me a story of how it took him over 25 text messages of him texting a woman and her texting him back before she would even except a phone call off him.

Even when he called the first few times the calls were not answered and the missed calls weren’t returned. However, he held no resentment and she finally did answer the phone.

Then came the canceled dates by her, yet he still held no resentment. Then when they finally did date she arrived one and a half hours late to his house, yet, still no resentment on his behalf.

His attitude and expert demeanor can only be achieved by dating many women at once as there is much less pressure for it to work out with one particular woman. He was able to operate and act freely throughout the date and the date was a total success.

Did I mention that this woman was astoundingly beautiful and that they ended up in bed together on the first night?

Not many men would be able to behave with the same unattached carefree attractive demeanor that he displayed throughout their courtship, and not many men get to be in the company of a woman as attractive as she was.

A man with my friend’s demeanour is a very attractive man to a woman. Although he is not typically attractive it is more so the way he makes women feel whilst they are around him.

Too many men take too many things women do personally, and as a result, they begin to resent women. You can’t take the dating game to heart. You will learn within yourself when you have had enough of chasing a particular woman.

If you don’t place so much emphasis on the outcome, you will naturally be and come across as a much more attractive man for a woman to date.

You can be much more honest with her and much more honest with yourself when you are unattached to the outcome of a date. You can only become unattached to the outcome when you know you have plenty of options.

And you can only have plentiful options when you take the time to discover what it is that women are really attracted to and how a woman’s psyche is wired. Just as you are doing now…