Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »