So you have given a girl your number and expect her to call you. That’s a mistake and its misguided optimism. You are the man right? Well from now on you are responsible. Responsible for what I hear you say.

Responsible for learning and abiding by the following principle; “I am the man. I am responsible for every single detail of every single interaction, with every single woman I meet.”

That’s the short version. Now here’s the long one. You are responsible for initiating eye contact. You’re responsible for approaching the woman and initiating conversation and keeping the conversation alive.

You’re responsible for directing the conversation in the right direction. And you’re totally responsible for the seduction, and asking for her phone number.

You’re responsible for calling her and asking her on a date and then calling her back again when she doesn’t show up. You’re responsible for choosing where to take her and it’s up to you to initiate the first kiss too.  You’re responsible for initiating sex and creating the correct mood. And you’re also responsible for maintaining her interests in you….and for chasing her. Read the rest of this entry »