Many men adopt the approach of trying to become a woman’s friend. They believe that if they can befriend the woman, the woman will be easier to seduce and more accepting of their advances. Nothing could be further from the truth.

If you want to seduce a woman or begin a relationship with her, then you must be honest with her, and in doing so, be honest with yourself. Attempting to befriend women that you wish to sleep with is going about things backwards, and it will not work.

Remember this very important fact; most women usually decide if a man will be a potential lover or a friend within the first two minutes of their very first interaction.

It takes some women as little as ten seconds to decide this. This is one area where women are actually very decisive. If you have not made the correct impression within this small time frame as a potential lover, you will immediately be placed into the ‘friend category’.

It is possible to get out of the friend category, but you’re making things unnecessarily hard for yourself. Some women will never let you out of the friend category once you have fallen into it. Read the rest of this entry »