Another cool little crazy trick to help you build connection with her is the ‘something near your lip trick’. Wait until she has a sip of her cappuccino or a piece of cake and then look at her as if you’re slightly taken back and say “you have something just above your lip”

Now be careful here because this can make her self-conscious and it won’t be conducive to her being in a relaxed open mood. But if you do it right it can work in your favor. Ensure that you come across as totally relaxed when you say this and make sure you have a relaxed posture.

After you point just slightly above your own lip to show her where this tiny piece of chocolate is, allow her to try to wipe it off once. When she fails to remove it, just look at her lovingly and say ‘do you mind’, as you begin to slowly reach your hand up to it.

Then take your time and whilst using your thumb, just ever so gently wipe the corner of her top lip. Then just say to her, ‘all gone’ or ‘that’s better’, or ‘perfect again’, and continue the conversation as if nothing happened by maybe saying something along the lines of, “…anyway, as I was saying…” Read the rest of this entry »