It doesn’t mater if you know everything there is to know about seduction, you will be hindering your progress severely if you do not begin to recognize your soul purpose in life. Without a soul purpose ingrained into your character women will tend to see through you.

Your subliminal behavioral traits and emotions will appear transparent, shallow and superficial to women. Your will come across to women as lacking integrity, sincerity, drive and passion.

You’ll tend to place a much higher emphasis on rejection and begin to fear it easier. It’s unavoidable, and these are the highly unattractive side effects of having no soul purpose.

Women have an acute intuition and can tell if you are seeking validation from them. They can tell if you are using them to make yourself feel good about yourself. They can tell that you need something off them. And second only to violent behavior, neediness in a man’s character is a woman’s biggest turn off. Nothing will make her reject you faster.

The reason so many men fall into this trap of using women to make them feel good about themselves, is that they lack a soul purpose in their life. Without it, men look to less constructive things to gain pleasure and validation.

Even within a relationship, if a man starts to become stagnant and only uses the relationship as his source of validation, the women will soon become unsatisfied at her core and trouble in the relationship is sure to ensue.

You will never feel fulfilled in your life as a man no matter how many women you sleep with. If you use women to validate yourself it can become like a highly addictive drug. The only time you feel good about yourself is when you are seducing or having sex with women.

The more women you sleep with, the more empty your soul will become, and the less satisfying each sexual interaction will become. And then you will search for more. Just like being addicted to a drug, you will need so much of it just to feel the slightest amount of pleasure. Its an easy and dangerous trap to fall into.

Of course you want to sleep with a lot of women, most men do, but you must not allow these thoughts and cravings to control your life. Sexual energy is very misunderstood, when a man can harness its power and not misuse or waste it, he can use this energy to drive and motivate himself to achieve great things in life. Ironically, when you do not allow these things to control your life, your success with with women will improve even more.

You must seek and think hard about what your soul purpose is in life and immediately begin to pursue it. Only when you have found a great desire to achieve a purpose that stimulates your mind and spirit as a man will you not fall into the trap of using women to validate your life. Not only will you have something in your life that gives you meaning, but you will also have more success with women too.

There must be something in your life that you have longed to pursue. The quiet voice inside your head as you lay awake in bed at night is constantly trying to tell you what it is. Are you listening to it..? Or are you throwing reasons and excuses back at it to help you sleep. .?

Where have your dreams gone and what aren’t you doing. .? If you were dying right now, what regrets would you have. .? With purpose comes direction and with direction we have meaning. With meaning comes reason and with reason we develop discipline. With discipline we have success.

Without a purpose in your life you will lack direction, meaning and discipline. You’ll lack fulfillment and instinctively begin to seek it in other areas not conducive to progress. You will develop positive traits when you begin to passionately pursue a soul purpose.

When a man does what is right by his conscience, and he makes a habit out of living congruently with his conscious and soul purpose and the acquisition of female company becomes a breeze. If a man does only this, his success rate with women will triple.

When a man lives his life like this, he will no longer fear approaching women either. It’s only because most men know that they’re not living their life with total congruence and they secretly want something from the woman that they fear approaching her. And when they do approach her all those in-congruent thoughts are being projected at her. It can’t be helped, its the law of nature.

Women can feel what a man thinks, that’s the way they’re wired, and that’s their protection mechanism. That’s why its possible for some men to pick up a woman without saying a word to her. Because in some men, everything about them is in total alignment, and this cannot be faked. When the woman feels the passion, drive and purpose within the man himself, it will out weigh and out perform any rehearsed seduction material tenfold. . .