To follow a set routine to get a girl’s number is a lot of hard work. There are certain factors that should be followed to ensure that you bypass her instinctive objections, but to say there is a set routine that will work most of the time would be a lie.

Let’s lay down the guide lines that should be followed when you do ask for her number and then let’s learn about how you actually know when it’s right time to ask.

Once you’ve established a strong connection with her that is based on attraction, not friendship, getting her number will be easy. You can even make mistakes and she’ll still give it to you because you’ve put in the ground work and she trusts you.

But you haven’t always got time to build this connection, and when you’re time is short with her, getting her phone number is a lot more difficult. It’s much more crucial that you do follow certain principles, so it allows her to feel safe enough to give you her number.

The biggest mistake guys make is to ask for her number without giving her a reason as to why they want it. Now this may sound strange to you because is obvious to you why you’re asking for her number so you assume that’s it’s obvious to her. Women don’t think like that.

The first thing that a womanUnderground Seduction

The latest high quality seduction package at an unbeatable price...Learn the secrets...$15 discount.. thinks when you ask for her number after flirting with her for only five minutes is; “Why does this guy want my phone number for…what is he going to do with it…I barely know this guy…what’s the point of giving him my number…I’m not sure if I trust him with my phone number…I don’t know him well enough…”….And the list goes on and on…

These are the obstacles that you’re faced with when you’re trying to cut to the chase and get a girl’s number after only just meeting her. The easy way around this is to have a little patience. However this is only an option if you know you’re going to see this girl again. If you definitely know you’re going to run into her again at the gym or work etc, use your time effectively to create a connection with her a couple of times first, then ask for her number.

There’s no point in bombing out with her because you’re pressuring her the first time you meet her for her number, especially if you know you’ll run into her again. The likely hood of her being more forthcoming with her number is greatly increased once she has met you a few times and you’ve managed to create a small connection between you.

When asking a woman for her phone number you must simply give her a reason for wanting it. In her mind this gives her reason and justification as to why she should give her number to a near total stranger. Without this reason she feels cheap and easy which is one of a woman’s four biggest fears.

Although you may use a multitude of flirting techniques to establish enough of a connection to ask for her number, when it’s time to ask for her number you still have to do it basically the same way.

You simply need to get her to agree to try something or do something with you and then ask for her number at the end of your request. Let’s say you’ve been flirting with her for a few minutes and things are going well. You simply need to anchor the phone number request to a subject that you have both connected on. The possibilities are endless but let’s look at an example.

While she is still smiling, simply ask her similar to this; “…It’s so cool that you’re into bikes, you sound like a ton of fun…hey, this is gonna sound crazy… but would you like to meet up later this week so we can chat about going for a ride together…(..yes..)…ok that’s great,… well give me your number so I can give you a call and we’ll try to line something up later this week…”

Substitute the word ‘bikes’ and ‘ride’ with anything. Tennis, hiking or even flavoured coffees, it doesn’t matter because the dynamics are the same. This is the most basic and sure-fire way to get a woman’s number. There are lots of flirting techniques to get you to this point in the conversation, but when you ask for her number, follow this technique.

Now that you know how to ask for her number correctly there is actually a more important piece of the puzzle that guys continually get wrong. It’s called the window of opportunity. This piece of the puzzle is the required precursor before you ask for her number.

The window of opportunity is a point in time during the flirtation process in which it feels intuitively right to ask for the girl’s number. It is an intuitive feeling that you experience within yourself whilst you’re flirting with the girl that tells you that at this moment, it would be ok to ask for her number. The problem is that most men ignore this feeling as they assume that the connection they have established with the girl will remain at its current strength. This is never the case.

Liken the window of opportunity to cooking a steak. There is a perfect time to take the steak off the hot plate. Despite how perfect the steak seems to be cooking, if you leave it on there for too much longer it will burn.

Listen to your intuition with regards to asking a girl for her number. There will be a perfect time to ask her and you must seize that opportunity. You might be flirting with a girl at a club and everything is going great. You get that inner feeling that it would be perfect to ask her for her number now…but you stall out of fear and complacency. Then suddenly her favourite song comes on.

She cringes in excitement and looks over at her friend who also knows that it’s her favourite song. Her friend rushes over, grabs her by the wrist and drags her onto the dance floor. Your window of opportunity has gone. Now you’ll have to start all over again with her. Only one minute ago, you got the inner sense that it would’ve been fine to simply ask her for her number. Now you’re in no man’s land standing at the bar or on the side of the dance floor.

Worst of all she might even be thinking, “I would’ve given that guy my number if he just asked me for it. I thought we were getting on great. He’s either too shy or not interested….his loss…”

Wouldn’t you agree that it’s better to crash and burn, rather than totally miss your window of opportunity? When you miss your window of opportunity with a woman you have 0% chance of getting her number. When your intuition tells you to go for it, and you do ask her for her number because it feels right, you have 50% chance. She can only say, “I don’t think so” …or… “Pass me your phone”

Don’t just blurt it out and ask for her number at any old time because you think you’ve put in enough work. Wait until it feels right, and then, when it does feel right, make sure you go for it.

There are also some very different techniques you can use to help you get a girls number that involve body language. This technique is best used in a noisy environment such as a night club or at a concert. You can only really use this when everyone is having a good time and you can intuitively feel that a girl is attracted to you without you even having to say anything to her. You also have to be close to her.

In this noisy environment where it is nearly impossible to have a conversation, simply continue to flirt with her using eye contact etc and keep on doing what you’re doing as there is already an obvious connection there without you having to work at it much. There are two ways in which you can get a girls number in this situation without having to say anything to her.

While you know she is looking at you reach down into your pocket and pull out you mobile as if you have a call. Go into messages and type out a new message that says “….Hi…I’m Michael…I want to call you later???…”. Look at her with a mischievous grin, and then hold up your phone so she can see what you’ve typed.

If you have judged the chemistry between the two of you right then this will make her laugh. After she laughs a bit, scroll down your mobile screen a little bit more where she will see that you have also written “…Don’t be shy….I promise I don’t bite…”

After she laughs again simply hand her your mobile on the normal screen so she can type her number in. The trick is here; when you give her your mobile, pass it to her so it is pointing straight into the middle of her chest. This is naturally a vulnerable part of the human body and she will instinctively grab onto it. When she does, just give her a gentle coaxing nod and smile, like you’re assuming she’ll put her number in. If she tries to give it back to you, just don’t accept it, but of course be playful about it.

If you attempt to pass her your phone at waist level it’s easier for her to simply brush it aside and not accept it. When you pass it to her at chest level very close to her, it’s instinctive for her to grab onto it. Once she has grabbed onto it the psychological law of consistency and commitment come into play and she’s much more likely to type her number in.

Now for something really advanced. The best way of all to get a girls phone number is to not even ask her for it, sounds crazy but it’s true. If you have laid the correct ground work down and you’ve created an intimate connection based on sexual attraction, you should be able to simply hand her your phone and smile.

Try to use this method as much as possible because it causes you to take your seduction game to the next level. Ultimately you shouldn’t need to be asking women for their phone number. You should be realising that they are already giving it to you by the way they are talking and looking at you.

This works like magic but you must have a strong connection. In fact the quality of your connection will actually be lowered if you have to ask her for her number. It’s a mere formality and it’s going to happen. Asking for her number would only inject doubt into the situation. Seduction at this level is smooth and flawless. Some women can find this a touch arrogant, yet they still find it strangely amusing and seductive, and usually still put their number in.

They say, “what you expect me to put my number in” as they try to maintain some kind of control over the situation. The smooth operator would just reply with “Are you telling me you don’t want to…” And they reply with, “yeah but….well ok” and proceed to type in their number.

When your seduction game is tuned to this level you don’t need to ask for her phone number anymore. Just hand her your phone and she’ll give it to you. You won’t always be running this hot but when you are, make sure you use it. And when you’re not running red hot which will probably be most of the time… simply use the tried and trusted method of anchoring the number request with a reason and purpose for wanting it.