Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her.

Nice guys fail to do this and women will generally only sleep with them out of pity or desperation. The nice guy ends up thinking that the woman has slept with him because he is nice, kind and caring…but more often than not, she leaves him, for what the nice guy would describe as a jerk.

When a guy is too nice he does not have the ability to except blame or repair a situation, because how could he possibly do anything wrong, in his mind, he’s too nice. He often blinds and tricks himself into thinking that he’s too nice to hurt any woman, and therefore cannot admit when he is at fault.

Thus he eventually ends up hurting women even more than the obnoxious jerk does. Some women will eventually sleep with you if you are nice enough, but this will only be through a slow ‘wearing out’ and grovelling process on your behalf.

There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and at no time will being rude or impolite to a woman work for you either. You must always be a gentleman. But to rely on being a nice guy to seduce women will rarely ever work for you.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t be cultured and polite, and treat women with the absolute up-most respect. On the contrary women will adore you for this. These will always be your standard personality traits, and gorgeous women will expect nothing less. Nice guys just make the mistake of thinking that it is these traits that allow them to seduce women.

Stop worrying about being so nice and focus more on the techniques you can learn on this site. Women can look after themselves. They are grown up. You are not responsible for looking after them and nurturing their poor sensitive little hearts.

It will get you nowhere but into the friend category. And once you fall into that category you won’t be able to get out of it, thus ending any possibility of having any form of relationship, except friendship.

Nice guys supplicate to women. They are willing to go out of their way to fulfil all that women ask and want of them. To a woman a supplicating man is a turn off. As usual he thinks he is being nice and thinks that this will make women want him. However, to the woman the man appears needy and desperate.

Second only to acting in a violent and threatening manner, acting needy and desperate, is a woman’s biggest turn-off. Nothing will make a woman run faster than a man who comes across as needy or desperate.

Women want creativity, spontaneity, courage, and a challenge….not supplication, neediness or desperation.

If you are realising that you are a ‘nice guy’, you will now begin to stop supplicating to women. You will start to run your life to a schedule and convenience that suits you. You will begin to make life work around you, and for you, and not around what women want.

You are not responsible to give women everything they want and need. To do so will only allow women to use you to get what they want and need, and they will view you as desperate.

Nice guys supplicate to women in a pathetic attempt to pick up women. For example; a women will approach a nice guy at a bar and ask him, “Are you going to buy me a drink stud?” Without hesitation the nice guy says “certainly”, and proceeds to buy the woman a drink with the misinterpretation that the woman is interested in him because she asked him to buy her a drink.

Then 99% of the time, the woman finishes the drink and comes up with a line similar to, “well I must go and meet a friend now, would you excuse me?” And of course she never returns…

The woman has got what she wanted, the man has supplicated to her, she is turned off and bored, and she leaves. Sometimes directly to the next nice guy who will buy her a drink.

This isn’t acting like a man and it certainly isn’t challenging for the woman in any way, and as a result it kills all the attraction.

Never buy drinks for a woman you do not know. Instead, try this…Woman says, “so are you going to buy me a drink stud?”…Now you can try replies similar to; “no…but you can buy me a drink if you like.”

This response instantly challenges a woman and shows her that you will not be walked all over and you won’t supplicate to her. If she is genuinely interested, she will buy you a drink, and you will already be miles ahead of other guys.

Become creative with your responses to this old tiring “are you going to buy me drink” routine that women lay on you.

You can also respond with, “No I won’t,…you just want me to get you drunk because you think I’ll take advantage of you…so I think it’s safer if you buy one for me first…”

Again this challenges the woman. It’s playfully accusing her of wanting you to take advantage of her. It then turns the tables on her and dares her to buy you a drink. It’s classic role reversal, it’s flirtatious, and it builds attraction.

Or a response that’s a touch classier, given the right situation, might be,… “No …but I’d love to buy you dinner….”

This is going to make her laugh… but it’s also going to show her that you’re man enough to go after what you want, when you see something that you know you like.

All of these responses are challenging and playful. They all take you out of the ‘nice guy’ category. They all build attraction and they are all flirtatious when done properly. This is all she wants…fun. These responses allow her to have that.

With practice you’ll be able to keep the flirtatious and fun vibe going long after these initial responses. You’ll be allowing women to experience the feelings they require in order for them to feel a connection with you.

And here’s a secret…After you become a seduction expert, you’ll still be a nice guy…but you’ll also know what women really want…