To follow a set routine to get a girl’s number is a lot of hard work. There are certain factors that should be followed to ensure that you bypass her instinctive objections, but to say there is a set routine that will work most of the time would be a lie.

Let’s lay down the guide lines that should be followed when you do ask for her number and then let’s learn about how you actually know when it’s right time to ask.

Once you’ve established a strong connection with her that is based on attraction, not friendship, getting her number will be easy. You can even make mistakes and she’ll still give it to you because you’ve put in the ground work and she trusts you. Read the rest of this entry »

Ok so you’ve got her number and now it’s time to call her. Now you’ve gone through the work of getting her number so it’s crucial here that you don’t mess it up with this first phone call.

Although you’ve had to establish a connection with her in order to get her number, no matter how good that connection was, the dynamics of this first phone call are going to be different.

The connection that you established in order to get her number has long gone, so this first phone call has got to be right. And yes, it has to be a phone call. The majority of women when surveyed admitted that they prefer a man to call them, rather than text them.

It shows women you’re man enough to call them, rather than tread around the edges with text messages. Text messages can sometimes confuse the issue as she may not get your sense of humour and texts fail to convey emotion which is what women are all about. However most women will just think you haven’t got the courage to call them if you text them first.

Also, texting her is a risky approach as she may not reply to it, and any messages you send after she hasn’t replied will cause you to come across as needy or desperate. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

There’s about four really good ways to flirt with women and they’re all quiet different from each other. They all work well in their own right but when combined they become a powerful seduction weapon. When you use only one style it tends to get a bit repetitive for the woman and she begins to see through it.

The trick is to master each one so you can create a combination that suits you. Then you can adjust that combination depending on your mood or what kind of girl you’re with.

The first flirting technique you’re going to learn is a technique that has been coined “cocky and funny‟ and was created by an old school seduction artist named David DeAngelo.Basically it involves you talking and acting in such a confident and cocky manner that it becomes funny. You turn on this alter ego unpredictably when it suits you so you can play with her and make her laugh, which in turn builds connection. It’s powerful because it also slightly shocks some women and they don’t know what to make of it sometimes.
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When you spend time with a women you desire there is the possibility that you might make a mistake or offend a woman during the courtship. She’ll be sure to let you know by either voicing her opinion or suddenly changing her attitude towards you. If this happens to you there is a correct way to apologise to women that is very effective.
 
We’ll coin it the ‘talk back apology’. The first step is to ask her what is bothering her if she hasn’t already told you and actually listen to what she is saying to you without interrupting her. Then repeat back to her word for word if possible what she has said to you. This shows her that you have listened to her and that you’ve understood her.

In doing this your battle is already half won. Then you must apologise to her for what she thinks you have done and promise to never do it again. Continue by thanking her for sharing her feelings with you and let her know you understand how she could become upset over such a thing.
 
When you apologise to a woman using the talk back apology your chances of her accepting the apology and changing her mood are 100% better than just saying to a girl, “…Oh I’m sorry…I didn’t mean to offend you…” That’s a primitive apology and it will get you nowhere fast. Read the rest of this entry »