What we think when mixed with strong emotional content has its own special way of coming true. One purpose of the universe is to transmute our thoughts and emotions into their physical equivalent. When we fear something, it is charged with a strong emotional content. All the fine intricacies of the universe are attempting to transmute this fear into it’s physical equivalent.

When we start to fear losing our drop dead gorgeous girlfriend, the physical equivalent isn’t far behind. Our actions and sub-communications begin to repel her on a subliminal level. Insecurities, jealousy and neediness creep into our personality. And before you know it, if your not careful…its over.

It’s the law of nature trying to reward us with the physical equivalent of what we think about most. It makes no distinction between positive or negative thoughts. It only attempts to make them come true. So how do we know if we fear losing her as a girlfriend ?

Some ‘fear of loss’ symptoms;

Attempting to control your girlfriend too much. Controlling when and where she goes out, who she sees and what she does. Remember, what you try to control,…is actually controlling you. Read the rest of this entry »

Flirting, what a simple process, yet it is riddled with such complex subliminal psychological undertows that even seasoned experts can get it wrong…

There are countless techniques and methods that all claim to be the correct way to flirt with women. The bottom line is that there is no absolute specific correct method to flirt with women.

All women are different and all men are different. What works on one girl will not necessarily work on another, and if a man is successful using a particular technique, it doesn’t mean that if you emulate it you will be successful too.

The purpose of flirtation is to play and have fun with the woman, to build rapport and trust. It causes you and her to establish a connection that is based on sexual tension and attraction, rather than friendship.

When you flirt with a woman it allows her to experience what you would be like as a lover or a boyfriend. In the process of you flirting with her she will be subconsciously experiencing how creative you are, and how much fun you might be whilst in a relationship with you. Read the rest of this entry »

It doesn’t mater if you know everything there is to know about seduction, you will be hindering your progress severely if you do not begin to recognize your soul purpose in life. Without a soul purpose ingrained into your character women will tend to see through you.

Your subliminal behavioral traits and emotions will appear transparent, shallow and superficial to women. Your will come across to women as lacking integrity, sincerity, drive and passion.

You’ll tend to place a much higher emphasis on rejection and begin to fear it easier. It’s unavoidable, and these are the highly unattractive side effects of having no soul purpose.

Women have an acute intuition and can tell if you are seeking validation from them. They can tell if you are using them to make yourself feel good about yourself. They can tell that you need something off them. And second only to violent behavior, neediness in a man’s character is a woman’s biggest turn off. Nothing will make her reject you faster.

The reason so many men fall into this trap of using women to make them feel good about themselves, is that they lack a soul purpose in their life. Without it, men look to less constructive things to gain pleasure and validation. Read the rest of this entry »

Many men adopt the approach of trying to become a woman’s friend. They believe that if they can befriend the woman, the woman will be easier to seduce and more accepting of their advances. Nothing could be further from the truth.

If you want to seduce a woman or begin a relationship with her, then you must be honest with her, and in doing so, be honest with yourself. Attempting to befriend women that you wish to sleep with is going about things backwards, and it will not work.

Remember this very important fact; most women usually decide if a man will be a potential lover or a friend within the first two minutes of their very first interaction.

It takes some women as little as ten seconds to decide this. This is one area where women are actually very decisive. If you have not made the correct impression within this small time frame as a potential lover, you will immediately be placed into the ‘friend category’.

It is possible to get out of the friend category, but you’re making things unnecessarily hard for yourself. Some women will never let you out of the friend category once you have fallen into it. Read the rest of this entry »

A coffee date is the most effective way to move things along to the next stage with a woman. When you have a woman’s phone number the next step is to simply call her and invite her out to share a coffee with you. Getting to know a woman better is best done whilst in a casual relaxed atmosphere such as a cafe.

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Learn the exact social dynamic techniques that ensure seduction. Guaranteed to help you succeed on a first date. Know exactly what to do and say!!. doesn’t have connotations of intimacy attached to it like dinner or movie dates do. These are the very reasons that will allow women to be more receptive to your invitation. Women are more inclined to accept an invitation to a coffee date rather than a dinner date. They feel safe and don’t feel pressured into becoming intimate with you because of the casual and public atmosphere a cafe has.

Men grossly underestimate the importance of these factors when asking a woman out for the first time. Women take things slowly during the initial stages of a courtship.  A short coffee date is the perfect stepping stone to get you to an official second date.

It takes the average woman takes around 8 hours before she becomes comfortable enough to become intimate with a new man. The secret is in how you utilize these 8 hours. Read the rest of this entry »