I’d like to share with you some pre-approach mental warm up exercises to help you to get yourself into a  warm positive mental state before you even go near a woman. Your success with women is predetermined by your mental and emotional states. This happens before you even approach women and speak a single word.

It doesn’t matter how good looking, clever, or entertaining you are, if your projecting inharmonious or negative thought frequencies, you’ll rub her the wrong way at her deepest level. In-congruent thoughts will damage your chances before you even approach a woman.

I’m going to share a little warm up trick that will do wonders for your approach game. A calm, confident attitude is the desired outcome of the exercise. Firstly let’s forget the girl no matter who she is. You need to think about a person that you are extremely comfortable around. Maybe it’s your best friend, or brother, or even an old special friend.You need to concentrate on the sensation that dwells up inside of you when you think of that person. Think about when you see them again how you cannot help but smile and feel good inside. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

There’s about four really good ways to flirt with women and they’re all quiet different from each other. They all work well in their own right but when combined they become a powerful seduction weapon. When you use only one style it tends to get a bit repetitive for the woman and she begins to see through it.

The trick is to master each one so you can create a combination that suits you. Then you can adjust that combination depending on your mood or what kind of girl you’re with.

The first flirting technique you’re going to learn is a technique that has been coined “cocky and funny‟ and was created by an old school seduction artist named David DeAngelo.Basically it involves you talking and acting in such a confident and cocky manner that it becomes funny. You turn on this alter ego unpredictably when it suits you so you can play with her and make her laugh, which in turn builds connection. It’s powerful because it also slightly shocks some women and they don’t know what to make of it sometimes.
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Body language is an important factor that can assist you to gauge what a woman is thinking and feeling. It may also be used to establish whether a woman is interested in you based on your looks alone. You can easily tell what your chances are with each woman in the room simply by paying attention to her body language.

It makes your job a lot easier if you have the advantage of being able to tell if a girl is actually initially interested in you based on your looks alone. Of course your looks don’t really matter as women are mainly interested in how you make them feel, but any advantage is beneficial. Read the rest of this entry »

Another cool little crazy trick to help you build connection with her is the ‘something near your lip trick’. Wait until she has a sip of her cappuccino or a piece of cake and then look at her as if you’re slightly taken back and say “you have something just above your lip”

Now be careful here because this can make her self-conscious and it won’t be conducive to her being in a relaxed open mood. But if you do it right it can work in your favor. Ensure that you come across as totally relaxed when you say this and make sure you have a relaxed posture.

After you point just slightly above your own lip to show her where this tiny piece of chocolate is, allow her to try to wipe it off once. When she fails to remove it, just look at her lovingly and say ‘do you mind’, as you begin to slowly reach your hand up to it.

Then take your time and whilst using your thumb, just ever so gently wipe the corner of her top lip. Then just say to her, ‘all gone’ or ‘that’s better’, or ‘perfect again’, and continue the conversation as if nothing happened by maybe saying something along the lines of, “…anyway, as I was saying…” Read the rest of this entry »