I’d like to share with you some pre-approach mental warm up exercises to help you to get yourself into a  warm positive mental state before you even go near a woman. Your success with women is predetermined by your mental and emotional states. This happens before you even approach women and speak a single word.

It doesn’t matter how good looking, clever, or entertaining you are, if your projecting inharmonious or negative thought frequencies, you’ll rub her the wrong way at her deepest level. In-congruent thoughts will damage your chances before you even approach a woman.

I’m going to share a little warm up trick that will do wonders for your approach game. A calm, confident attitude is the desired outcome of the exercise. Firstly let’s forget the girl no matter who she is. You need to think about a person that you are extremely comfortable around. Maybe it’s your best friend, or brother, or even an old special friend.You need to concentrate on the sensation that dwells up inside of you when you think of that person. Think about when you see them again how you cannot help but smile and feel good inside. Read the rest of this entry »

To follow a set routine to get a girl’s number is a lot of hard work. There are certain factors that should be followed to ensure that you bypass her instinctive objections, but to say there is a set routine that will work most of the time would be a lie.

Let’s lay down the guide lines that should be followed when you do ask for her number and then let’s learn about how you actually know when it’s right time to ask.

Once you’ve established a strong connection with her that is based on attraction, not friendship, getting her number will be easy. You can even make mistakes and she’ll still give it to you because you’ve put in the ground work and she trusts you. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

Body language is an important factor that can assist you to gauge what a woman is thinking and feeling. It may also be used to establish whether a woman is interested in you based on your looks alone. You can easily tell what your chances are with each woman in the room simply by paying attention to her body language.

It makes your job a lot easier if you have the advantage of being able to tell if a girl is actually initially interested in you based on your looks alone. Of course your looks don’t really matter as women are mainly interested in how you make them feel, but any advantage is beneficial. Read the rest of this entry »

Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her. Read the rest of this entry »