What we think when mixed with strong emotional content has its own special way of coming true. One purpose of the universe is to transmute our thoughts and emotions into their physical equivalent. When we fear something, it is charged with a strong emotional content. All the fine intricacies of the universe are attempting to transmute this fear into it’s physical equivalent.

When we start to fear losing our drop dead gorgeous girlfriend, the physical equivalent isn’t far behind. Our actions and sub-communications begin to repel her on a subliminal level. Insecurities, jealousy and neediness creep into our personality. And before you know it, if your not careful…its over.

It’s the law of nature trying to reward us with the physical equivalent of what we think about most. It makes no distinction between positive or negative thoughts. It only attempts to make them come true. So how do we know if we fear losing her as a girlfriend ?

Some ‘fear of loss’ symptoms;

Attempting to control your girlfriend too much. Controlling when and where she goes out, who she sees and what she does. Remember, what you try to control,…is actually controlling you. Read the rest of this entry »