I’d like to share with you some pre-approach mental warm up exercises to help you to get yourself into a  warm positive mental state before you even go near a woman. Your success with women is predetermined by your mental and emotional states. This happens before you even approach women and speak a single word.

It doesn’t matter how good looking, clever, or entertaining you are, if your projecting inharmonious or negative thought frequencies, you’ll rub her the wrong way at her deepest level. In-congruent thoughts will damage your chances before you even approach a woman.

I’m going to share a little warm up trick that will do wonders for your approach game. A calm, confident attitude is the desired outcome of the exercise. Firstly let’s forget the girl no matter who she is. You need to think about a person that you are extremely comfortable around. Maybe it’s your best friend, or brother, or even an old special friend.You need to concentrate on the sensation that dwells up inside of you when you think of that person. Think about when you see them again how you cannot help but smile and feel good inside. Read the rest of this entry »

Ok so you’ve got her number and now it’s time to call her. Now you’ve gone through the work of getting her number so it’s crucial here that you don’t mess it up with this first phone call.

Although you’ve had to establish a connection with her in order to get her number, no matter how good that connection was, the dynamics of this first phone call are going to be different.

The connection that you established in order to get her number has long gone, so this first phone call has got to be right. And yes, it has to be a phone call. The majority of women when surveyed admitted that they prefer a man to call them, rather than text them.

It shows women you’re man enough to call them, rather than tread around the edges with text messages. Text messages can sometimes confuse the issue as she may not get your sense of humour and texts fail to convey emotion which is what women are all about. However most women will just think you haven’t got the courage to call them if you text them first.

Also, texting her is a risky approach as she may not reply to it, and any messages you send after she hasn’t replied will cause you to come across as needy or desperate. Read the rest of this entry »

Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her. Read the rest of this entry »

So you have given a girl your number and expect her to call you. That’s a mistake and its misguided optimism. You are the man right? Well from now on you are responsible. Responsible for what I hear you say.

Responsible for learning and abiding by the following principle; “I am the man. I am responsible for every single detail of every single interaction, with every single woman I meet.”

That’s the short version. Now here’s the long one. You are responsible for initiating eye contact. You’re responsible for approaching the woman and initiating conversation and keeping the conversation alive.

You’re responsible for directing the conversation in the right direction. And you’re totally responsible for the seduction, and asking for her phone number.

You’re responsible for calling her and asking her on a date and then calling her back again when she doesn’t show up. You’re responsible for choosing where to take her and it’s up to you to initiate the first kiss too.  You’re responsible for initiating sex and creating the correct mood. And you’re also responsible for maintaining her interests in you….and for chasing her. Read the rest of this entry »