I’d like to share with you some pre-approach mental warm up exercises to help you to get yourself into a  warm positive mental state before you even go near a woman. Your success with women is predetermined by your mental and emotional states. This happens before you even approach women and speak a single word.

It doesn’t matter how good looking, clever, or entertaining you are, if your projecting inharmonious or negative thought frequencies, you’ll rub her the wrong way at her deepest level. In-congruent thoughts will damage your chances before you even approach a woman.

I’m going to share a little warm up trick that will do wonders for your approach game. A calm, confident attitude is the desired outcome of the exercise. Firstly let’s forget the girl no matter who she is. You need to think about a person that you are extremely comfortable around. Maybe it’s your best friend, or brother, or even an old special friend.You need to concentrate on the sensation that dwells up inside of you when you think of that person. Think about when you see them again how you cannot help but smile and feel good inside. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

Body language is an important factor that can assist you to gauge what a woman is thinking and feeling. It may also be used to establish whether a woman is interested in you based on your looks alone. You can easily tell what your chances are with each woman in the room simply by paying attention to her body language.

It makes your job a lot easier if you have the advantage of being able to tell if a girl is actually initially interested in you based on your looks alone. Of course your looks don’t really matter as women are mainly interested in how you make them feel, but any advantage is beneficial. Read the rest of this entry »

Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »

Flirting, what a simple process, yet it is riddled with such complex subliminal psychological undertows that even seasoned experts can get it wrong…

There are countless techniques and methods that all claim to be the correct way to flirt with women. The bottom line is that there is no absolute specific correct method to flirt with women.

All women are different and all men are different. What works on one girl will not necessarily work on another, and if a man is successful using a particular technique, it doesn’t mean that if you emulate it you will be successful too.

The purpose of flirtation is to play and have fun with the woman, to build rapport and trust. It causes you and her to establish a connection that is based on sexual tension and attraction, rather than friendship.

When you flirt with a woman it allows her to experience what you would be like as a lover or a boyfriend. In the process of you flirting with her she will be subconsciously experiencing how creative you are, and how much fun you might be whilst in a relationship with you. Read the rest of this entry »