Ok so you’ve got her number and now it’s time to call her. Now you’ve gone through the work of getting her number so it’s crucial here that you don’t mess it up with this first phone call.

Although you’ve had to establish a connection with her in order to get her number, no matter how good that connection was, the dynamics of this first phone call are going to be different.

The connection that you established in order to get her number has long gone, so this first phone call has got to be right. And yes, it has to be a phone call. The majority of women when surveyed admitted that they prefer a man to call them, rather than text them.

It shows women you’re man enough to call them, rather than tread around the edges with text messages. Text messages can sometimes confuse the issue as she may not get your sense of humour and texts fail to convey emotion which is what women are all about. However most women will just think you haven’t got the courage to call them if you text them first.

Also, texting her is a risky approach as she may not reply to it, and any messages you send after she hasn’t replied will cause you to come across as needy or desperate. Read the rest of this entry »