On a coffee date there is a couple of good ways to flirt. One such way is using a technique called Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions or SHD’s. By talking about certain topics you can easily incorporate this technique within the context of your conversations.

SDH’s will cause women to subliminally experience the feelings necessary for them to feel attraction. The most important factor when building a connection with her that is based in sexual tension is how you can make her feel. For the ultimate guide, try reading first date tips. 

Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work by incorporating certain words within the context of a story or description. These normal words have the possibility to be subliminally misinterpreted by the woman’s subconscious mind.

Normal words like ‘wet’ and ‘hard’ or ‘smooth’ and ‘sensitive’ all have connotations of sexuality attached to them. If you incorporate these words within a story you tell whilst speaking in a smooth seductive tone and rhythm, magic can happen. Read the rest of this entry »

NLP and seduction have long been associated with each other. Nero Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a term used to describe the way in which our brains adhere to specific patterns of communication dependent on our personality type.  Once we can begin to understand these patterns, triggers and Meta models, we can use them to our advantage whilst communicating with women.

When we cause a woman to align and harmonize with our desires and intentions through the use of effective communication, it is known as seduction.

This is why NLP and seduction can work wonders together. When a man is able to quickly analyze and decode a woman’s communications, he can easily build rapport and establish trust which in turn generates a connection that the seduction can be founded upon. These are also great first date tips.

People will primarily use one of four different representational systems to communicate and the system they adopt is dependent on their personality type. The systems are known as kinesthetic, visual, audio and olfactory. If a man converses with a woman whilst utilizing her primary system he is able to establish a connection with her much faster. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

There’s about four really good ways to flirt with women and they’re all quiet different from each other. They all work well in their own right but when combined they become a powerful seduction weapon. When you use only one style it tends to get a bit repetitive for the woman and she begins to see through it.

The trick is to master each one so you can create a combination that suits you. Then you can adjust that combination depending on your mood or what kind of girl you’re with.

The first flirting technique you’re going to learn is a technique that has been coined “cocky and funny‟ and was created by an old school seduction artist named David DeAngelo.Basically it involves you talking and acting in such a confident and cocky manner that it becomes funny. You turn on this alter ego unpredictably when it suits you so you can play with her and make her laugh, which in turn builds connection. It’s powerful because it also slightly shocks some women and they don’t know what to make of it sometimes.
Read the rest of this entry »

Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her. Read the rest of this entry »