Many men adopt the approach of trying to become a woman’s friend. They believe that if they can befriend the woman, the woman will be easier to seduce and more accepting of their advances. Nothing could be further from the truth.

If you want to seduce a woman or begin a relationship with her, then you must be honest with her, and in doing so, be honest with yourself. Attempting to befriend women that you wish to sleep with is going about things backwards, and it will not work.

Remember this very important fact; most women usually decide if a man will be a potential lover or a friend within the first two minutes of their very first interaction.

It takes some women as little as ten seconds to decide this. This is one area where women are actually very decisive. If you have not made the correct impression within this small time frame as a potential lover, you will immediately be placed into the ‘friend category’.

It is possible to get out of the friend category, but you’re making things unnecessarily hard for yourself. Some women will never let you out of the friend category once you have fallen into it. Read the rest of this entry »

This is written for the purpose of helping you cope with the fact that you have been cheated on. . .

Trust me, nothing will cut deeper than being cheated on. It doesn’t matter how messy a relationship gets or how many other inadequacies you might have within it, nothing will come close to the pain that can be caused by being cheated on.

How do we cope. .  ?   What is the right thing to do. .  ?   Is it your own fault. .  ?   Will I ever get over it ?  Should I have seen it coming. . ?   Have I reacted the right way. . ?  Again,..how the hell do I cope. . ?

When you’ve been cheated on you find out just how much you really love someone. If you really do love someone, this is when it can get hard.

If you don’t really love her, you’ll find it easier to cope because you will have a tendency just to leave her or you’ll just attempt to even the score by doing the same back to her. No love lost really, because there was none in the first place. It’s when you really love her that your going to face the immense struggle within. Read the rest of this entry »

So you have given a girl your number and expect her to call you. That’s a mistake and its misguided optimism. You are the man right? Well from now on you are responsible. Responsible for what I hear you say.

Responsible for learning and abiding by the following principle; “I am the man. I am responsible for every single detail of every single interaction, with every single woman I meet.”

That’s the short version. Now here’s the long one. You are responsible for initiating eye contact. You’re responsible for approaching the woman and initiating conversation and keeping the conversation alive.

You’re responsible for directing the conversation in the right direction. And you’re totally responsible for the seduction, and asking for her phone number.

You’re responsible for calling her and asking her on a date and then calling her back again when she doesn’t show up. You’re responsible for choosing where to take her and it’s up to you to initiate the first kiss too.  You’re responsible for initiating sex and creating the correct mood. And you’re also responsible for maintaining her interests in you….and for chasing her. Read the rest of this entry »