So she’s agreed to meet you for coffee. This is a clear sign that she is interested in getting to know you. From here on in if you can manage to get this short coffee date right she’ll have no objections of going on a second date with you.

An important factor of this date is to keep it short and limited to a period of 20 to 40 minutes. There are several reasons behind this. Firstly, you do not know enough about this woman to socialize with her for any longer than half an hour. Secondly, you’re following a carefully created plan to ensure that you succeed with this woman. Read the rest of this entry »

Another cool little crazy trick to help you build connection with her is the ‘something near your lip trick’. Wait until she has a sip of her cappuccino or a piece of cake and then look at her as if you’re slightly taken back and say “you have something just above your lip”

Now be careful here because this can make her self-conscious and it won’t be conducive to her being in a relaxed open mood. But if you do it right it can work in your favor. Ensure that you come across as totally relaxed when you say this and make sure you have a relaxed posture.

After you point just slightly above your own lip to show her where this tiny piece of chocolate is, allow her to try to wipe it off once. When she fails to remove it, just look at her lovingly and say ‘do you mind’, as you begin to slowly reach your hand up to it.

Then take your time and whilst using your thumb, just ever so gently wipe the corner of her top lip. Then just say to her, ‘all gone’ or ‘that’s better’, or ‘perfect again’, and continue the conversation as if nothing happened by maybe saying something along the lines of, “…anyway, as I was saying…” Read the rest of this entry »

Flirting, what a simple process, yet it is riddled with such complex subliminal psychological undertows that even seasoned experts can get it wrong…

There are countless techniques and methods that all claim to be the correct way to flirt with women. The bottom line is that there is no absolute specific correct method to flirt with women.

All women are different and all men are different. What works on one girl will not necessarily work on another, and if a man is successful using a particular technique, it doesn’t mean that if you emulate it you will be successful too.

The purpose of flirtation is to play and have fun with the woman, to build rapport and trust. It causes you and her to establish a connection that is based on sexual tension and attraction, rather than friendship.

When you flirt with a woman it allows her to experience what you would be like as a lover or a boyfriend. In the process of you flirting with her she will be subconsciously experiencing how creative you are, and how much fun you might be whilst in a relationship with you. Read the rest of this entry »

It doesn’t mater if you know everything there is to know about seduction, you will be hindering your progress severely if you do not begin to recognize your soul purpose in life. Without a soul purpose ingrained into your character women will tend to see through you.

Your subliminal behavioral traits and emotions will appear transparent, shallow and superficial to women. Your will come across to women as lacking integrity, sincerity, drive and passion.

You’ll tend to place a much higher emphasis on rejection and begin to fear it easier. It’s unavoidable, and these are the highly unattractive side effects of having no soul purpose.

Women have an acute intuition and can tell if you are seeking validation from them. They can tell if you are using them to make yourself feel good about yourself. They can tell that you need something off them. And second only to violent behavior, neediness in a man’s character is a woman’s biggest turn off. Nothing will make her reject you faster.

The reason so many men fall into this trap of using women to make them feel good about themselves, is that they lack a soul purpose in their life. Without it, men look to less constructive things to gain pleasure and validation. Read the rest of this entry »