Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her. Read the rest of this entry »

Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »