To follow a set routine to get a girl’s number is a lot of hard work. There are certain factors that should be followed to ensure that you bypass her instinctive objections, but to say there is a set routine that will work most of the time would be a lie.

Let’s lay down the guide lines that should be followed when you do ask for her number and then let’s learn about how you actually know when it’s right time to ask.

Once you’ve established a strong connection with her that is based on attraction, not friendship, getting her number will be easy. You can even make mistakes and she’ll still give it to you because you’ve put in the ground work and she trusts you. Read the rest of this entry »

Ok so you’ve got her number and now it’s time to call her. Now you’ve gone through the work of getting her number so it’s crucial here that you don’t mess it up with this first phone call.

Although you’ve had to establish a connection with her in order to get her number, no matter how good that connection was, the dynamics of this first phone call are going to be different.

The connection that you established in order to get her number has long gone, so this first phone call has got to be right. And yes, it has to be a phone call. The majority of women when surveyed admitted that they prefer a man to call them, rather than text them.

It shows women you’re man enough to call them, rather than tread around the edges with text messages. Text messages can sometimes confuse the issue as she may not get your sense of humour and texts fail to convey emotion which is what women are all about. However most women will just think you haven’t got the courage to call them if you text them first.

Also, texting her is a risky approach as she may not reply to it, and any messages you send after she hasn’t replied will cause you to come across as needy or desperate. Read the rest of this entry »