Yes Sir,.. that’s right… Sad, but true unfortunately. If it weren’t true there would be a lot more of us guys with beautiful women in our arms.

The problem with being a nice guy (or a sensitive new age guy, s.n.a.g.) is that you are too nice to fulfil any of a woman’s needs. You become too preoccupied with trying to be nice all the time. Not occupied on the correct things, like becoming exciting, spontaneous and romantic.

Do you notice how more often than not, it seems to be the outspoken jerks that get all the women? That’s because they are entertaining and adventurous for the women. They satisfy a woman sexually and keep a woman challenged.

More often than not they are capable of admitting to women that they could possibly hurt their feelings and play with their emotions. This ironically makes them more trustworthy to women as they seem to know what to expect.

A lot of women tend to be weary of nice guys. They will talk to them and befriend them; however women very rarely sleep with a man because he is nice and interesting. A woman sleeps with a particular man because he is capable of evoking the correct emotions within her. Read the rest of this entry »

Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »

Flirting, what a simple process, yet it is riddled with such complex subliminal psychological undertows that even seasoned experts can get it wrong…

There are countless techniques and methods that all claim to be the correct way to flirt with women. The bottom line is that there is no absolute specific correct method to flirt with women.

All women are different and all men are different. What works on one girl will not necessarily work on another, and if a man is successful using a particular technique, it doesn’t mean that if you emulate it you will be successful too.

The purpose of flirtation is to play and have fun with the woman, to build rapport and trust. It causes you and her to establish a connection that is based on sexual tension and attraction, rather than friendship.

When you flirt with a woman it allows her to experience what you would be like as a lover or a boyfriend. In the process of you flirting with her she will be subconsciously experiencing how creative you are, and how much fun you might be whilst in a relationship with you. Read the rest of this entry »

It doesn’t mater if you know everything there is to know about seduction, you will be hindering your progress severely if you do not begin to recognize your soul purpose in life. Without a soul purpose ingrained into your character women will tend to see through you.

Your subliminal behavioral traits and emotions will appear transparent, shallow and superficial to women. Your will come across to women as lacking integrity, sincerity, drive and passion.

You’ll tend to place a much higher emphasis on rejection and begin to fear it easier. It’s unavoidable, and these are the highly unattractive side effects of having no soul purpose.

Women have an acute intuition and can tell if you are seeking validation from them. They can tell if you are using them to make yourself feel good about yourself. They can tell that you need something off them. And second only to violent behavior, neediness in a man’s character is a woman’s biggest turn off. Nothing will make her reject you faster.

The reason so many men fall into this trap of using women to make them feel good about themselves, is that they lack a soul purpose in their life. Without it, men look to less constructive things to gain pleasure and validation. Read the rest of this entry »

Many men adopt the approach of trying to become a woman’s friend. They believe that if they can befriend the woman, the woman will be easier to seduce and more accepting of their advances. Nothing could be further from the truth.

If you want to seduce a woman or begin a relationship with her, then you must be honest with her, and in doing so, be honest with yourself. Attempting to befriend women that you wish to sleep with is going about things backwards, and it will not work.

Remember this very important fact; most women usually decide if a man will be a potential lover or a friend within the first two minutes of their very first interaction.

It takes some women as little as ten seconds to decide this. This is one area where women are actually very decisive. If you have not made the correct impression within this small time frame as a potential lover, you will immediately be placed into the ‘friend category’.

It is possible to get out of the friend category, but you’re making things unnecessarily hard for yourself. Some women will never let you out of the friend category once you have fallen into it. Read the rest of this entry »