Another cool little crazy trick to help you build connection with her is the ‘something near your lip trick’. Wait until she has a sip of her cappuccino or a piece of cake and then look at her as if you’re slightly taken back and say “you have something just above your lip”

Now be careful here because this can make her self-conscious and it won’t be conducive to her being in a relaxed open mood. But if you do it right it can work in your favor. Ensure that you come across as totally relaxed when you say this and make sure you have a relaxed posture.

After you point just slightly above your own lip to show her where this tiny piece of chocolate is, allow her to try to wipe it off once. When she fails to remove it, just look at her lovingly and say ‘do you mind’, as you begin to slowly reach your hand up to it.

Then take your time and whilst using your thumb, just ever so gently wipe the corner of her top lip. Then just say to her, ‘all gone’ or ‘that’s better’, or ‘perfect again’, and continue the conversation as if nothing happened by maybe saying something along the lines of, “…anyway, as I was saying…” Read the rest of this entry »

Every woman is different and every situation is different. There is no such thing as a hard and fast approach rule. In a situation at a bar for example, you can meet women back to back, rather than face to face. It’s possible to be touching her seductively yet in an unassuming manner before you even talk to her. Now that’s no standard approach. . .

It’s easy to establish a minute long session of flirtatious back to back touching whilst the both of you pretend to be none the wiser. After all, for her to accuse you of any deliberate touching would just be presumptuous on her behalf. That’s the last thing women want to come across as.

After you have developed this kind of unspoken back to back kino it becomes quiet easy to to simply turn around and say ‘hi’ to her. It has already gone past hello anyway. You can even playfully accuse her of rubbing herself up against you on purpose. You might say something like “hey, enough touching me now, how about you slow down minx and we just say hi…” The possibilities are endless. This is why approaching women shouldn’t be a rehearsed subject.

We attempt to generalize all things to make sense of things easier. We do this when it comes to approaching women too. The old ‘approach her within three seconds rule’. The walk over to her confidently and just say ‘hi’ rule… Its all bulls@^t, and no set of circumstances are ever the same. Read the rest of this entry »

Flirting, what a simple process, yet it is riddled with such complex subliminal psychological undertows that even seasoned experts can get it wrong…

There are countless techniques and methods that all claim to be the correct way to flirt with women. The bottom line is that there is no absolute specific correct method to flirt with women.

All women are different and all men are different. What works on one girl will not necessarily work on another, and if a man is successful using a particular technique, it doesn’t mean that if you emulate it you will be successful too.

The purpose of flirtation is to play and have fun with the woman, to build rapport and trust. It causes you and her to establish a connection that is based on sexual tension and attraction, rather than friendship.

When you flirt with a woman it allows her to experience what you would be like as a lover or a boyfriend. In the process of you flirting with her she will be subconsciously experiencing how creative you are, and how much fun you might be whilst in a relationship with you. Read the rest of this entry »

It doesn’t mater if you know everything there is to know about seduction, you will be hindering your progress severely if you do not begin to recognize your soul purpose in life. Without a soul purpose ingrained into your character women will tend to see through you.

Your subliminal behavioral traits and emotions will appear transparent, shallow and superficial to women. Your will come across to women as lacking integrity, sincerity, drive and passion.

You’ll tend to place a much higher emphasis on rejection and begin to fear it easier. It’s unavoidable, and these are the highly unattractive side effects of having no soul purpose.

Women have an acute intuition and can tell if you are seeking validation from them. They can tell if you are using them to make yourself feel good about yourself. They can tell that you need something off them. And second only to violent behavior, neediness in a man’s character is a woman’s biggest turn off. Nothing will make her reject you faster.

The reason so many men fall into this trap of using women to make them feel good about themselves, is that they lack a soul purpose in their life. Without it, men look to less constructive things to gain pleasure and validation. Read the rest of this entry »

A coffee date is the most effective way to move things along to the next stage with a woman. When you have a woman’s phone number the next step is to simply call her and invite her out to share a coffee with you. Getting to know a woman better is best done whilst in a casual relaxed atmosphere such as a cafe.

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Learn the exact social dynamic techniques that ensure seduction. Guaranteed to help you succeed on a first date. Know exactly what to do and say!!. doesn’t have connotations of intimacy attached to it like dinner or movie dates do. These are the very reasons that will allow women to be more receptive to your invitation. Women are more inclined to accept an invitation to a coffee date rather than a dinner date. They feel safe and don’t feel pressured into becoming intimate with you because of the casual and public atmosphere a cafe has.

Men grossly underestimate the importance of these factors when asking a woman out for the first time. Women take things slowly during the initial stages of a courtship.  A short coffee date is the perfect stepping stone to get you to an official second date.

It takes the average woman takes around 8 hours before she becomes comfortable enough to become intimate with a new man. The secret is in how you utilize these 8 hours. Read the rest of this entry »