Ok so you’ve got her number and now it’s time to call her. Now you’ve gone through the work of getting her number so it’s crucial here that you don’t mess it up with this first phone call.

Although you’ve had to establish a connection with her in order to get her number, no matter how good that connection was, the dynamics of this first phone call are going to be different.

The connection that you established in order to get her number has long gone, so this first phone call has got to be right. And yes, it has to be a phone call. The majority of women when surveyed admitted that they prefer a man to call them, rather than text them.

It shows women you’re man enough to call them, rather than tread around the edges with text messages. Text messages can sometimes confuse the issue as she may not get your sense of humour and texts fail to convey emotion which is what women are all about. However most women will just think you haven’t got the courage to call them if you text them first.

Also, texting her is a risky approach as she may not reply to it, and any messages you send after she hasn’t replied will cause you to come across as needy or desperate. Read the rest of this entry »

There’s something that’s been on my mind a lot recently. In fact, it’s been eating away at me. I just can’t seem to figure out why guys have so much trouble when dealing with attractive women. They make it seem like it’s the most challenging thing in the world, when really all they’re doing is talking to another person. I used to do the same thing though. I put attractive girls up on some imaginary pedestal, and it made it pretty uncomfortable to talk with them. Once I started treating them like I would any other girl that I WASN’T interested in, things got a lot easier for me.

You might get a little bit anxious at the thought of approaching a woman that you like. Heck, you might even have a FEAR of speaking and interacting with beautiful women. It’s a terrible position to be in, and it makes it pretty much impossible to get what you want from life. So you want to learn how to pick-up women? Well, the first thing you have to do is learn how to control your nerves. Why?

I’m sure you’ve seen in movies how the guy is nervous around the girl, and the girl thinks it’s “cute”. What you don’t learn from the movie is that there’s a definite limit to this, and it only works up to a certain point. If you’re OVERLY nervous, you come across as a guy that has zero confidence in himself. Women can EASILY pick up on this, and it’s a huge turn-off for them. Confidence is key. Follow these 3 simple tips to get over your “fear of approach”, and learn how to pick-up women: Read the rest of this entry »

Body language is an important factor that can assist you to gauge what a woman is thinking and feeling. It may also be used to establish whether a woman is interested in you based on your looks alone. You can easily tell what your chances are with each woman in the room simply by paying attention to her body language.

It makes your job a lot easier if you have the advantage of being able to tell if a girl is actually initially interested in you based on your looks alone. Of course your looks don’t really matter as women are mainly interested in how you make them feel, but any advantage is beneficial. Read the rest of this entry »

So she’s agreed to meet you for coffee. This is a clear sign that she is interested in getting to know you. From here on in if you can manage to get this short coffee date right she’ll have no objections of going on a second date with you.

An important factor of this date is to keep it short and limited to a period of 20 to 40 minutes. There are several reasons behind this. Firstly, you do not know enough about this woman to socialize with her for any longer than half an hour. Secondly, you’re following a carefully created plan to ensure that you succeed with this woman. Read the rest of this entry »

Another cool little crazy trick to help you build connection with her is the ‘something near your lip trick’. Wait until she has a sip of her cappuccino or a piece of cake and then look at her as if you’re slightly taken back and say “you have something just above your lip”

Now be careful here because this can make her self-conscious and it won’t be conducive to her being in a relaxed open mood. But if you do it right it can work in your favor. Ensure that you come across as totally relaxed when you say this and make sure you have a relaxed posture.

After you point just slightly above your own lip to show her where this tiny piece of chocolate is, allow her to try to wipe it off once. When she fails to remove it, just look at her lovingly and say ‘do you mind’, as you begin to slowly reach your hand up to it.

Then take your time and whilst using your thumb, just ever so gently wipe the corner of her top lip. Then just say to her, ‘all gone’ or ‘that’s better’, or ‘perfect again’, and continue the conversation as if nothing happened by maybe saying something along the lines of, “…anyway, as I was saying…” Read the rest of this entry »