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I’d like to share with you some pre-approach mental warm up exercises to help you to get yourself into a  warm positive mental state before you even go near a woman. Your success with women is predetermined by your mental and emotional states. This happens before you even approach women and speak a single word.

It doesn’t matter how good looking, clever, or entertaining you are, if your projecting inharmonious or negative thought frequencies, you’ll rub her the wrong way at her deepest level. In-congruent thoughts will damage your chances before you even approach a woman.

I’m going to share a little warm up trick that will do wonders for your approach game. A calm, confident attitude is the desired outcome of the exercise. Firstly let’s forget the girl no matter who she is. You need to think about a person that you are extremely comfortable around. Maybe it’s your best friend, or brother, or even an old special friend.You need to concentrate on the sensation that dwells up inside of you when you think of that person. Think about when you see them again how you cannot help but smile and feel good inside.

Imagine that special feeling of  love and friendship you feel as your getting closer to greet them. As you hold onto that thought in your mind, you can start to focus on the warm relaxed feeling you are experiencing inside your stomach and chest.

Now as your experiencing that feeling, give that feeling a colour. For most people it’s a deep crimson red or purple, but you know what colour best describes the warm blissful feeling your now experiencing. Now start to allow that colour to expand in your stomach and chest so that the special feeling is beginning to fall into your legs and flow into your arms.

Now allow that colour that’s full of those warm peaceful feeling to keep expanding and then expand some more. It’s grown so much now that the colour is actually surrounding you and beginning to fill the space around you. You are now totally immersed in the warm peaceful sensations that the colour is holding.  Now as you slowly focus on the woman you desire to approach, you begin to allow that colour to gently float over to her and start to enfold and surround her.

Do not be surprised now if she turns around now and looks at you. She can already feel the good vibrations. In fact now she’s not quiet sure what it is but she is also looking forward to meeting you. She’s not sure why but she feels as though she already knows you somehow. Of course you will smile back, because you can’t wait to see her.

Now just let the magnet pull you over to her,… and as you’re approaching her begin to notice how much of the colour is already on her. It’s no trouble talking to her now because you haven’t seen each other for ages. In fact you could even just stand with her and allow her to share that feeling. Otherwise you could now just talk to her and say absolutely anything you want to her.

But be careful now because some other women have felt your colour and are also interested in meeting you too…